like why did Toyotomo Hideyoshi NOT proclaim himself Shogun despite conquering everybody.
like why did Khrushchev have to attack Stalin in his Secret Speech after coming into power.
like why does the PAP possess such an unshakable position although there are an increasing number of disgruntled citizens.
the answer is LEGITIMACY, or THE RIGHT.
you arent the legitimate girlfriend when you're a third party. you're a usurper, coming in between an official couple, and replacing the rightful girlfriend. you'll have to be in constant fear and worry of being in her shadow, whether he will regret his decision, whether you'll ever be able to fill the shoes of one whom you've cruelly betrayed. that's cos you arent the legitimate girlfriend, the fact is that, you are a THIRD PARTY.
anyway, changing blogskin soon, trying to clean the cobwebs off this blog, lest people complain im lazy!
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